Peeking Under the Hood - Your Parenting Cheat Sheet for 4 to 12 yr olds - 2 hr.
This is seminar is the parenting cheat sheet you've been waiting for. It will provide for you the developmental secrets of kids 4-7 and 8-12; how and why they push your particular buttons, what those buttons are related to, what they need from you, and what you need to do for you to get through it in a way that actually keeps you sane, and helps you grow along side your child. This webinar was recorded LIVE in the middle of the covid19 'shelter-in-place' order when parents were home w their kids, "homeschooling", pulling out their hair, and attempting to work ... everyone was going a bit bonkers! This was my attempt to help everyone out just a little bit. xoxo
Sex and Spirit- A Path to Healing from Sexual Shame - 2 hrs
Sexual shame is debilitating to our ability to give and receive love in our most intimate relationships . Yet in America it has been on the rise since 1980. If you hit your teens after 1980, there is a good chance you are filled with it - unless you grew up in a family that taught you to love and cherish your body, your unfolding sexuality, AND they gave you the relationship and sexual knowledge you needed at each developmental age along the way from the time you were a toddler. This webinar takes a close look at sexual shame, how we absorb it, and how we heal.
Body-to-Body: How to Find Comfort Amidst COVID-19 - 2 hr.
Dr. Tina is joined by AASECT 2020 Award winning sex and relationship therapist/neurobiologist Dr. Stella Resnick to talk about the effect COVID-19 is having on our relationships. They talk about ways to restore connection, pleasure, and intimacy in the midst of the isolation and anxiety that is so present in everyday life. Various ideas are shared.
The Contentious History Between America & Sex/Relationship Education - 3hrs.
In this seminar, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers chronicles the history of how sex education began in the United States, the socio-political, and public health factors that created it, and what ultimately shut it down in the early 1980's. You will learn about the political factors that continue to play a role in how sexual health/relationship information is shared and not shared in the U.S. and extreme damage this costs to our children, families, and ultimately our communities.
The Healing Work of Consensual Sex Workers - 2hrs
In this video, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers interviews a colleague who spent part of her adult life as a sex worker. If you have never listened to the stories of someone who intentionally chose sex work, there is much that may surprise you about this interview - including how healing the work can be.
Shamelessly Asking Questions About Sex with Dr. Emily Nagoski - 2 hr.
In October 2019, Dr. Tina interviewed Dr. Emily Nagoski, Author of Come As You Are and Burnout about the state of sexual health and education in our country. The full interview is about 2 hours long and took place in Denver, CO with a live audience.
How Do Sexuality and Spirituality Co-Inform Each Other? 1 hr.
Matthias Roberts, author of the book, Beyond Shame - Sexuality on your Own Terms, talks with author/speaker Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers about the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, and the fraught relationship the Empire Church has long had with the intersection of these two human desires. Specifically, they talk about the impact of the Empire Church on the LGBTQ community, and how sexual shame can affect a person's sense of self, relationships and sexuality. Both discuss the role therapists and healers can play in helping people to heal from the impact of oppression and hurtful teachings.
How Parental Shame Impacts Childhood Sexual Development - 3 hrs
In this seminar, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is going to walk you through the child developmental stages birth through 18, and review the general emotional and behavioral tasks, and sexual/body curiosities children/teens have as they are growing up. These are general, and of course there is variation among children, but becoming familiar with common behavioral and emotional developmental tasks, along with the sexual body curiosities that naturally emerge as children grow helps care providers and parents to be prepared to manage their own shame, and process their own childhood traumas in preparation. This 'stop-gap' allows for shame to lower and for non-reactive responses to prevail. This is the only way sexual shame IS NOT passed down from generation to generation. It also provides time to obtain resources in preparation. It also makes family life so much more enjoyable for both the child and the parent! As children grow, culture begins to play a larger role, but this proactive stance allows for the integration of this growing knowledge as well. Much of this is covered in this lecture and in the referenced resources throughout.
The Shameless Parenting Community
Shameless Parenting™️ Community - 9.99 Level (paid annually)
Shameless parenting community is a supportive, welcoming community of parents, caregivers, aunts, uncles, and professionals from around the world who are committed to raising children shame-free. Together they share their stories, provide resources, glean the resources provided here, meet for monthly Q& A's with Dr. Tina and other experts, and receive vital information and research on how to raise kids who can thrive in today's world. Tier 3 will give you: - Unlimited access to ALL the exclusive content on The Shameless Parenting Site- Access to the monthly Q&A community calls with Dr. Tina via Zoom - Monthly newsletter from Dr. Tina and The Shameless Parenting Community with the latest resources, etc- Members at this level will receive access to ALL of Dr. Tina's past webinar content for free, and will receive priority to attend webinar recordings in the future - A signed copy of Shameless Parenting - Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too!
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Shameless Parenting™️ Community 5.99 Level
For 5.99 a month your membership includes: -Access to all of the exclusive content created only for The Shameless Parenting Community-Access to monthly community calls (Q&A)with Dr. Tina via Zoom-Monthly email newsletters around Shameless Parenting -AND Access to Dr. Tina's webinars Peeking Under the Hood, & Masturbation and Porn, AND access to ALL live and future recordings of parenting webinars
5.99 Every Month
Shameless Parenting™️ Community $1.00 a year level
Shameless parenting community is a supportive, welcoming community of parents, caregivers, aunts, uncles, and professionals from around the world who are committed to raising children shame-free. Together they share their stories, provide resources, glean the resources provided here, meet for monthly Q& A's with Dr. Tina and other experts, and receive vital information and research on how to raise kids who can thrive in today's world. At this level you will gain access to: - Exclusive content only shared with the Shameless Parenting Community - Blog posts covering each age and stage, plus many special topic posts all written by Dr. Tina never before seen by the public. - Access to monthly, scheduled community calls with Dr. Tina via Zoom - Monthly email newsletter specifically targeted for the Shameless Parenting Community - Ask and get answers to you sexuality and parenting questions, from Dr. Tina - Access to a wonderful community of likeminded parents and caregivers all wanting to change the legacy from one of shame and silence to one of abundance and joy. Here you will find new friends and a ton of support. You will be able to ask each other questions, and send questions to Dr. Tina for her to address in the monthly Q&A or in an upcoming blog post.